Premium printed edition · book and workbook + electronic materials

Accept reality. Realize your potential.

This is not a motivational book and not a journal for your “better self”. It is a manual for adult self-diagnostics that helps you see where the life system is slipping, what you keep calling normal and what price you pay for delayed decisions.

First limited run of 100 copies Hardcover binding Dual-diagnostics workbook
Premium set with the book, workbook, pen, ribbon marker, electronic materials and first-edition certificate
Gift-set concept: books, workbook, pen, ribbon marker, electronic materials and first-edition certificate.

Not wellness. Not coaching. Not a sweet illusion.

A book for those who no longer have enough patience for beautiful explanations.

When life starts slipping, it may not look like a systemic problem. More often it feels like “a difficult period”, “I just need to hold on a little longer”, “I am simply tired”, “I will deal with it later”. That is how years pass not because of catastrophe, but because there is no honest audit.

“Basic Things” removes the decorative layer. The workbook turns it into tables, matrices, scores, comparisons and a first step. Not for self-punishment. For managing reality.

Book cover design with textured black paper and gold foil stamping
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Materiality

A solid black body, textured paper, gold foil, a clean spine and a presentation box. A book you want to hold in your hands.

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Dual diagnostics

First comes the subjective map of life. Then comes the factual map. The difference between them reveals not a mood, but a blind spot.

Method

Saw it. Wrote it down. Rated it. Compared it. Chose. Made the first move.

The weak logic of most “life tests” is that they give a beautiful picture without an operational decision. Here the logic is different: assessment must lead to choice, choice to action, and action to a reality check.

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Map of areas

Body, psyche, thinking, money, work, relationships, time, reputation, risk and meaning. Not “balance”, but a system of supports.

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Weight of areas

Not every problem has the same cost. What weighs the most right now must receive priority instead of remaining background noise.

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Comparison with facts

Self-assessment without facts quickly becomes self-defence. The factual map restores solid ground under your feet.

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72-hour plan

If there is no first move after diagnosis, it is not diagnosis. It is another way to postpone a decision.

Book

Basic principles that do not adapt to your expectations.

Workbook

The dual-diagnostics method, tables, matrices and control questions.

Digital access

PDF materials, the Self-Deception Calculator and future updates of electronic products.

First print run

Numbered certificate and a limited batch for early readers.

For whom

This is not a book for people looking for comfort.

For people who carry a lot and already suspect the price has become too high.

For those who confuse busyness with forward movement and want to check it without self-deception.

For readers who need structure, not another dose of inspiration.

For those who want to leave reaction mode and regain manageability over their own life.

Serhii Bieliakov, author of the book

Author

Serhii Bieliakov

The author works at the intersection of analytics, public systems, social policy, digital transformation and the management of complex decisions. His professional experience is connected with building analytical approaches, working with data, developing solutions for large systems and searching for an answer to one practical question: what is actually confirmed by facts, and what is merely a convenient internal legend?

“Basic Things I Was Not Told at Birth” did not grow out of a desire to write another motivational book. It is an attempt to assemble a sober manual for a person tired of beautiful explanations, chaotic sprints and the endless wait for the right moment.

The author’s approach is built on simple but unpleasant logic: if life is slipping, it should not be romanticized; it should be diagnosed. Do not look for excuses, see the system. Do not wait for inspiration, count the facts, identify weak points and make the first concrete move.

This book speaks directly because some things make no sense to soften. Reality does not become more convenient because it was beautifully explained. It changes only when a person stops adjusting facts to their own story and starts acting according to what is actually there.

Pre-order

The first print run must be limited. Otherwise it is not a premium product, but another printed file.

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Product direction Book + workbook + set The final price depends on the printer, materials, box and print volume.

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Questions

Answers to the main questions.

Where can I buy the book?

The electronic version of the book and workbook will be available through online platforms after the official launch. The printed premium version will be available for order through this website after pre-orders open. Before sales start, you can leave your contact to receive the PDF preview, print-run updates and be among the first to know about the launch.

What is included in the premium edition?

The premium edition is conceived as a full set: book, workbook, printed diagnostic materials, access to digital tools, PDF materials and the Self-Deception Calculator. The gift format may also include a box, ribbon marker, pen, first-edition certificate and other elements that strengthen the tactile experience.

How is this book different from motivational books?

This is not a book about inspiration, positive thinking or your “better self”. It is built as a tool for sober self-diagnostics: to see where life is slipping, which problems repeat, what has long become normal and what price a person pays for delayed decisions.

Who is this book for?

For people who carry a lot, work, make decisions and may look functional from the outside, but already feel that the price of this mode has become too high. This book is for those who need structure, an honest audit and a first concrete step, not another dose of inspiration.

Who is this book not for?

It is not for those looking for soft reassurance, beautiful affirmations or a quick feeling that “everything will be fine”. If a person is not ready to look at facts, acknowledge weak points and make at least one specific step, this book will become just an expensive object on a shelf.

Why a separate Self-Deception Calculator?

The calculator works as a short diagnostic before the full workbook. A person rates 10 areas of life, sees the weakest points, receives a result type, the main pattern of self-deception and a first step for the next 72 hours. It is not a medical or psychological diagnosis, but an author’s self-analysis tool.

Does the book replace a psychologist, doctor or financial consultant?

No. The book, workbook and calculator do not replace consultation with a doctor, psychologist, psychotherapist, financial or legal specialist. They are tools for self-analysis, structuring thoughts, decisions and life areas. If there are serious medical, psychological, financial or legal problems, a relevant specialist should be consulted.

What result should I expect after completing the workbook?

The main result is not a good mood, but a clearer map of your own life. What holds. What is slipping. Where self-deception is present. Which area pulls others down. What the hidden price of inaction is. And what should be done first to regain control.

Will there be an electronic version?

Yes, the electronic version or PDF materials will be part of the product. But the project is not limited to a PDF. Its strength is in combining the book, workbook, digital tools and a physical premium experience.

Will there be an English or German version?

Yes, the project is designed as multilingual. The Ukrainian version is the base for testing the product, audience, positioning and price. The English and German versions should not be mechanical translations, but full adaptations for the respective markets.

When will pre-orders open?

Pre-orders will open after the printed layout, test copy, set composition and cost calculation are finalized. Until then, you can leave your contact to receive updates, the PDF preview and be among the first to know about the start of sales.

Can the book be bought as a gift?

Yes. The premium format is exactly what makes it suitable as a gift. But this is not a “nice inspirational book”. It is a gift for someone who is ready to look at themselves like an adult. It should not be given to everyone, but to people who will not be offended by honesty.